Although moving is a big life change for everyone, kids can find it particularly overwhelming. Naturally, this can make residential moving even more stressful for parents who are trying to support them through this process.
Whether you’re relocating across town, across the country, or preparing for an international move, with the right approach, you can help your children navigate this experience with ease.
Our team took some time to curate a few practical tips to make things a little smoother for them — and you!
Talk About the Move Early and Often
As a parent, you already know that children need time to process big changes. Once you know you’re moving, start the conversation with your kids. Explain why you’re moving, what will change, and what they can expect to stay the same. Encourage them to ask questions and express their feelings. Keeping communication open will go a long way in helping them feel involved and reassured.
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Involve Everyone in the Process
You might be too busy to notice but your kids are watching you manage the moving parts of this relocation. By giving them a role or a job, you include them in the process, which gives them a sense of control. This is crucial, especially if they feel like they have no say in the move or have expressed frustration over having to leave their current home, school, neighborhood, etc.
Depending on their age, let them help pack their own belongings, choose decorations for their new room, or even have a say in the layout of common spaces. Whenever possible, take them to visit the new home or explore the neighborhood beforehand. If the distance is too great, hop online and let Google maps give them a sneak peek of the lay of the land. Working with a realtor? Ask them to send over photos of the new house so that your kids can start imagining themselves living there.
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Keep Routines as Consistent as Possible
We can’t overstate this enough: Kids thrive on routine. While moving is naturally disruptive, try to keep daily schedules intact. Stick to regular mealtimes, bedtime rituals, and family activities as much as possible. Familiar routines provide comfort and stability during the transition. This translates as reassurance that what really matters in their day to day lives won’t change, no matter their zip code.
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Pack a “Moving Day Survival Kit”
Make it a point to set aside a special bag with their favorite toys, books, snacks, and comfort items. Having familiar items close by can provide reassurance during the chaos of moving day. Bonus points for including some fun surprises, like a new coloring book or small toy, to make the experience feel exciting and distract them from any difficult emotions they might be wrestling with.
Be Patient and Supportive
Every child adjusts to a move differently. Some may embrace the change right away, while others may take longer to settle in. Keep an eye out for signs of stress or anxiety, such as changes in sleep patterns or mood swings. Provide plenty of reassurance, listen to their concerns, and give them time to adapt.
We can’t deny that moving with kids can come with challenges, but with thoughtful planning and plenty of support, you can help them navigate the change with confidence. By involving them in the process, maintaining routines, and fostering a sense of adventure, you can turn the move into an exciting new chapter for the whole family.CLR Movers is standing by when you’re ready to get into your new home. Request your moving quote today!
